Window 2003 server up dates.

I have 4 server in my home office, and when I use to come in i would fine 1 or 2 server had restarted for some reason. Well as I found out Microsoft seem to have set the update to restart you computer. Well I cut off the Auto update, Butl I here there is a way to have one sever receive the updates and push it out to the other server. Can some help me with this or point me in the right direction to find out about this.


Thank you.