If you use styles or themes, balance is very important. I use the ChaNinja theme for StyleXP along with the SpaceTime background from CognitiveDistortion, and I think they match rather nicely :)
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Do you have a background that perfectly complements your desktop theme? Show it off!
edit: I should mention that the media player is Quintessential Player, and the stats tool at the top-left is Sysmetrix using the Axion skin.
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